7 THINGS TO DO
TO PREVENT HABIT OF CHEATING IN YOUR MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP
As cheating in
marriage is becoming rampant this is one of the causes of divorce in
marriage/relationship this days.
Cheating can
sometimes be a way to end an unhealthy relationship, or gain clarity about what
is truly fulfilling and to prevent divorce.
Cheating in a
relationship is destructive, it’s destroying your soul, killing your spirit,
and at the same time ruining your relationship with your spouse or partner.
STEP BY STEP
THINGS TO DO TO PREVENT CHEATING IN YOUR MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP
[1] Be your own
person. One must
understand the importance of we, but also remember there will always be a you and I. It’s so easy to the think of
yourselves as one person once you get married or start dating. But you always
have to remember that you’re both completely separate individuals in that, as
close and as similar you are, you will have differences in opinion and taste.”
“You have
to be friends. Your husband or wife should be someone that you’d want to hang
out with. Of course you have to have the sexual aspect but that’s not enough to
sustain a relationship. You’re going to go through hard times and you need
someone who you want to spend your time with.”
[3] Get a confession
While confrontation may lead to this step, you've
got to be assertive that you ask them clearly whatever is on your mind, so you
know the real deal. For instance, if you have a partner who is cheating on you
by being just physical with someone, ask them why they did the same.
Nonetheless, if your partner were both emotionally and physically available to
someone else, that could be a red alert that your relationship has slipped out
of your hand for good, and restoring it could take more effort and time.
[4] Give enough Freedom
While too much independence the kind that leads to infidelity or
workaholism is a marriage breaker, too much dependence isn't the answer either.
"Every good marriage is based on an awful lot of separation," Nock
says. "People need to have a separate life and existence to feel validated
as individuals. They can't live solely as somebody's partner."
[5]. Avoid consistency with opposite sex
conversations
If your conversations are developing a theme,
favorite topic or inside jokes (especially those you don’t share with your spouse), then your communication is becoming more
intimate and likely to fulfill needs your spouse should fill. Intimacy always
begins with communication and increases with familiarity and comfort in
communication.
[6] Show commitment to your spouse daily
Doing special things for your spouse reminds you of
what they mean to you. Leave a sweet note. Call them and connect throughout
your day. Make a date to take them somewhere. Think of new things to do together.
Focus on the special things your spouse does for you instead of the little
things others do to tempt you to cheat. Checking in with your spouse while you’re with other people demonstrates that you value your marriage.
[7] Be honest.
“Be honest about shit that pisses you off, don’t sweat the small stuff, and have good sex.”
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